tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19708408307055472782024-03-12T19:39:15.275-07:00Jan's Health UpdatesUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1970840830705547278.post-3280516565504928962012-05-03T15:52:00.000-07:002012-05-03T15:52:11.497-07:00Deported, So To SpeakI got my port removed today!<br />
<br />The device was surgically placed just below my collarbone back in November, prior to the start of chemotherapy. Chemo drugs are so corrosive they would burn through the smaller veins in the arm; the port allows these drugs to be infused directly onto a major artery. Here's what the port looked like while it was still in me:<br />
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And although it <i>did</i> allow me to communicate with the Starship Enterprise, I was nevertheless happy to be rid of the port. Its removal has symbolic importance. Some people choose to keep their ports in case they need them again in the future, but that doesn't seem like much of a vote of confidence in the immune system. Anyway, my port was sore much of the time, especially when I used my arm. Maybe it's just me, but I enjoy having pain-free use of my arm.<br />
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Rick documented today's surgery. Don't be squeamish, now!<br />
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<br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1970840830705547278.post-69151508855639310862012-04-15T09:09:00.001-07:002012-04-15T09:09:08.820-07:00Results of Post-Treatment PET Scan: Drum Roll, PleaseI wish you could have seen my before and after shots. I asked if I could have them emailed to me, but the technology wouldn't cooperate. The PET scan I had done back in October made me look like a dalmatian, covered with black spots of cancer, along with some alarmingly large dark patches. In the repeat scan from a couple weeks ago, there is not a dot of black. My oncologist said my scan was pristine. That was the word he used: pristine.<br />
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And this is fabulous not only because it's fabulous, but because it's not necessarily what we were expecting. Many patients with my diagnosis don't get a complete remission from their treatment.<br />
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<i>Pristine</i>.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1970840830705547278.post-56784365836037350292012-03-31T08:38:00.000-07:002012-03-31T08:38:17.930-07:00Pressure's OffThirty days out from my last round of chemo, my main problem now is very low blood pressure, a condition that leaves me limp like a handkerchief and for which there is no medical treatment. My home remedy is to follow the Supreme Court hearings on the Affordable Care Act. Reading about some of the absurdities transpiring there must be worth a BP boost of at least a few points, I figure.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1970840830705547278.post-86802640294599701352012-03-30T10:37:00.000-07:002012-03-30T10:38:23.697-07:00StingHere's another passage from <i>The Hobbit,</i> this one sounding as though it refers directly to chemotherapy:<br />
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"Don't stray off the track!--if you do, it is a thousand to one you will never find it again and never get out of Mirkwood; and then I don't suppose I, or anyone else, will ever see you again."<br />
"Do we really have to go through?" groaned the hobbit.<br />
"Yes, you do!" said the wizard, "if you want to get to the other side."<br />
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And here's one more, which represents nicely the triumphant feeling of the patient who has successfully finished treatment:<br />
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There was the usual dim grey light of the forest-day about him when he came to his senses. The spider lay dead beside him, and his sword-blade was stained black. Somehow the killing of the giant spider . . . made a great difference to Mr. Baggins. He felt a different person, and much fiercer and bolder in spite of an empty stomach, as he wiped his sword on the grass and put it back into its sheath.<br />
"I will give you a name," he said to it, "and I shall call you <i>Sting</i>."<br />
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<br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1970840830705547278.post-31819230837400774312012-03-27T11:33:00.002-07:002012-03-27T11:33:35.396-07:00"Bother burgling and everything to do with it!"I'm reading <i>The Hobbit</i> for the 10,000th time, because it constitutes a kind of literary comfort food. It makes a wonderful allegory for most any unpleasant adventure one could have, including the medical kind. Here's a bit of dialogue from the book that sounds to me exactly like the kind of advice I always get from doctors: <br />"Now scuttle off and come back quick if you can. If you can't, hoot twice like a barn-owl and once like a screech-owl, and we will do what we can."Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1970840830705547278.post-58998817587590639982012-03-25T13:38:00.001-07:002012-03-25T13:50:20.775-07:00Marching Forth<br />
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The template for the March Fourth
Marching Band could, I suppose, be said to be the marching band of
high school and college tradition. When you see March Fourth in
action, you recognize certain elements: ornamental headgear;
two-toned, button-down jackets and matching pants; batons; percussion
and brass in great numbers; team spirit.
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Yet March Fourth is sort of a marching
band on acid. The 23-member ensemble travels the world in a Merry
Prankster-ish bus named Razzle Dazzle. Its sound is as much klezmer
as John Philip Sousa; in its costuming and choreography I see a
little Vaudeville, a little of the Jazz Age, a little Sergeant
Pepper's. Where a traditional marching band moves in formation, March
Fourth has stiltwalkers striding hither and thither among its
rambunctious fans, hoisting up children, dancing, performing short
comic skits. Where a traditional marching band places an emphasis on
uniformity, March Fourth's presentation is ad-libbed and libertarian.
Traditional marching bands dress their ranks and cover down their
files, while March Fourth performers are often in something of a
state of quasi-dress and un-cover, with fishnets as common as pith
helmets. A traditional marching band, for all its color and volume,
is regimented, while the carnivalesque, improvisational
March Fourth seems barely contained within a “corps”: it's a
military-style band that has exploded, leaving the air a-flutter with
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Rick and I are lucky not only to count
ourselves among March Fourth's fans, but to have a friend in the
band, and a few weekends ago we were gifted a pair of tickets to the
band's show (on March 4<sup>th</sup>; when else?) as a chemo-is-over
celebration. We attended the matinee (the night show was past our
bedtime) among the crazy
angles, “floating” mechanical dance floor and painted plaster
faces of Portland's famous Crystal Ballroom. We sat in the balcony
with (we suspect) moms and pops of the performers. This daytime show
included a cameo by budding musicians who had attended a March Fourth
summer band camp for teenagers last year, as well as the usual
dizzying retinue of hula hoop artists, giant human marionettes and
dancers. The emphasis of the circus acts is on whimsy and exuberance
rather than acrobatic virtuosity, but make no mistake: the musicians
are top-notch, and their sound—comprised entirely of drums, horns
and electric guitars—is like nothing else you've ever heard. March
Fourth describes its own output as “a full-blown big-stage
brass-rock-funk assault peppered with moments of swing, jazz,
bollywood, ska and metal,” if you can grok that.
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I am filled with wonder at the
spectacle, and have many questions for the band, like: how does one
compose music for such an ensemble? How are decisions made? (Not, I
suspect, by dictatorial fiat of a band leader—yet surely not by
consensus democracy, either—with 23 members?) Do you ship Razzle
Dazzle to Europe when you play there? And most of all, where do I
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At any rate, our getting to be present
in the audience that day was gift enough—so I was flabbergasted to
learn that our friend in the band had <i>composed a song in my
honor</i>, which debuted then and there. This is surely the only time
anyone has ever written a piece of music for me—and what piece it is! The tune
is called “Janjar.” Our friend, Taylor Aglipay, was wearing a pink sleeveless cowboy shirt for the occasion, along with an enormous piece of
headgear fashioned—I am not making this up—from the hair of a
goat in Azerbaijan. Evidently the hat still smells faintly goaty.
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I suppose in a sense all cancer patients are foster children. We are turned out of the bodies we've always inhabited, and we are made to live in new ones. We are entirely at the mercy of The System, which might treat us kindly, or not. The past, which--whatever it was like, was, after all, the only life we knew--is seen in a new and distinctly unfriendly light: <i>why is this bad thing happening to me? Was it something I did? </i>Then, too, we are afraid to attach to strongly to any particular vision of the future.<br />
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Under such circumstances, a Binky is a welcome traveling companion. Mine is quite pettable, and its bean-bag body sufficiently floppy that it would mold to my face if I wanted to sleep on it. If it came to that, I could probably suck on its tufted ears, too, though I probably won't. I do have to remain somewhat germ-conscious.<br />
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<br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1970840830705547278.post-21252588833479702922012-03-17T10:55:00.001-07:002012-03-17T10:55:37.943-07:00A Fearful SymmetryApparently I prefer my life events to be symmetrical, for my last round of chemo ended the way my first did--with a trip to the E.R.<br />
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Monday I was running a fever, which sounds an alarm because if you're neutropenic you can get very sick very fast. So off we went. Three blood draws, a urine test, a chest X-Ray and several geologic eras later they hadn't found much of anything wrong with me and they sent me home.<br />
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When we left the hospital at 1 a.m., it was snowing.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1970840830705547278.post-87917878365448775952012-03-09T12:54:00.001-08:002012-03-09T12:54:37.383-08:00The Nursing StaffUntil this last round of chemo I did not fully understand what profoundly lousy nurses cats make.<br />
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It's not just that they won't refill your water bottle for you or nudge up the temperature on your hot pad. It's not even that they stand at the end of the bed, hollering, as though <i>you</i>, the sick patient, are to be castigated for not leaving your pager on.<br />
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It's that they <i>revel</i> in your helplessness. What fine furniture you make in your weakened state! You hardly move, yet still emit heat! What darling little bottles of pills you've left on the bedside stand, to be knocked off and rolled under the bed with a gleeful paw! If they lick your wan brow, it's not to comfort you, but because your sweat has such an interesting tang just now. And they know you will not so much as squeak when they make a mighty leap from the windowsill onto this handy outcropping that is your head.<br />
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When you finally drift off--should they decide to allow you to drift off--they will break into the liquor cabinet and hack the V-Chip so they can watch porn on cable.<br />
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Never, ever leave your sick loved ones under the care of the cats.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1970840830705547278.post-76103661932069182582012-03-05T13:15:00.000-08:002012-03-22T17:28:12.904-07:00Another Hair Out of PlaceMy eyelashes are down to about 10% of their original load, a condition that gives my face a vaguely extraterrestrial appearance. Having 10% of my original eyebrows turns out to be adequate, although I appear to have moved into a different demographic category, that of Women Who Tweeze. I'm happy to report that I haven't moved into the demographic category of Women Who Tweeze Off <i>All </i>Their Eyebrows And Then Draw Them Back On With A Pencil. That's a cultural practice that has always baffled me.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1970840830705547278.post-30672840378825744092012-03-01T20:35:00.000-08:002012-03-01T20:35:05.367-08:00Round Six of SixI am ecstatic to report that the last of the bags of poison has been infused into my superior vena cava. I am finished with chemotherapy for the foreseeable future.<br />
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Today's won't be my last trip to the chemo ward (which has the disarming name "Infusion Suite," as though it were some kind of restful, fragrant tea house). I'll be there again tomorrow to get my usual post-treatment shot of Neulasta, a drug that boosts my white blood cell count. And I'll be returning every couple months for a booster dose of one of the medications, though thankfully not one of the ones with evil side effects. Anyway, the nurses were so great I'll be glad to visit them from time to time.<br />
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Because the effects of chemotherapy drugs are cumulative, each round is a little harder last. Round Five was not fun, and I woke up this morning dreading the coming weeks, although dread was weirdly combined with a great eagerness to get on with it and get it done--a kind of Senioritis. My friend Dvora says that when such difficult feelings are dogging her, she says to them, "Well, all right, then, Terror and Dread; get your shoes on. We have someplace to be."<br />
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Dvora spent the day with me, as she has for all six rounds, entertaining me with Edward Gorey pop-up books, original works of art, and her hilarious gallows humor (representative sample: fantasy of turning to a glum stranger in the elevator on the way to the chemo floor and saying "Whatsa matter? Oh--is it Stage IV?")<br />
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And though I have about three weeks of <i>yuck</i> ahead, I surprised myself with my ebullience at the end of the day. I said good-bye to each of the nurses--they were pleased for me--and then walked out and skipped the length of the hall from Infusion to the elevator.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1970840830705547278.post-60487928958926975412012-02-10T14:40:00.000-08:002012-02-10T14:54:05.584-08:00Te'eburneeTuesday night I celebrated the 50th birthday of a dear old friend. I went to YouTube and played about 9000 songs by this friend's favorite artist, Bruce Cockburn. The friend himself was not present. He's been dead lo these 18 years. And so it may be sacrilege, but I'm going to say it anyway: much as I appreciate Cockburn's skill as a musician, he is hands-down the worst lip-syncer I have ever laid eyes on. Bruce. Man. Dude. Dude.<br />
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Later Rick and I ate cupcakes and sang the happy birthday song, and though my friend's death pre-dated this era when all of us are allergic to everything, I know he would appreciate the delicious absurdity of the flourless, gluten-free, sugar-free cupcake.<br />
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Meanwhile, in the next room, another dear old friend of mine lay dying. Max had been ailing for some weeks. Of cancer, of all things, probably, although at a certain point it seemed cruel to keep taking him to be poked and prodded for a diagnosis, and I stopped. His ailment weirdly paralleled mine. He started to not feel so hot sometime in the fall, like me. His bloodwork didn't turn up anything, just like mine didn't. His weight and energy dropped. Buddy, I can relate. He got an opportunistic mouth infection; so had I. At the end he even had night sweats. Who knew a cat could have night sweats? I didn't even know <i>people</i> could have them until I had them myself.<br />
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And I am taking this loss very hard.<br />
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My naturopath pointed out that chemo intensifies grief just as it does anger and irritation (ask Rick if I've ever been just the tiniest bit irritable these past three months). But it also does not escape my attention that perhaps grief is doing a sneaky end run around the good attitude people keep telling me I have. I think of a poem by Gerard Manley Hopkins, about a child who is saddened by the dying leaves of autumn. It begins, "Margaret, are you grieving / Over Goldengrove unleaving?" and ends "It is the blight man was born for,/ It is Margaret you mourn for."<br />
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Then, too, grief can fashion a weird daisy chain of losses: you start weeping over one dead cat and soon you're weeping over a lifetime's worth, plus all the friends, relatives, colleagues, mentors, role models and other beloveds who've left you behind.<br />
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But in the moment I'm not conscious of thinking these things. I'm not conscious of thinking anything at all, just of wading into a wordless lake of sorrow.<br />
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May I eulogize? Max was a cat who garnered praise from people who don't like cats. He was quiet, polite and exceptionally handsome--all black, a strapping, panthersome fellow. And he was all love, pure and uncomplicated and thorough. He liked to crawl under the covers with me and hook his paws over my arm, purring like a locomotive. (Over 13 years we had hundreds of high-quality naps together). If he wanted my attention, he'd place one paw on my face, or press his velvety forehead to my own. A cat isn't a person, of course, but a cat can do things people can't. He doesn't care if you make social faux-pas or can't use an Oxford comma. If you are good to him, he loves you completely, unconditionally, without judgment. He loves you in a way that human beings can't pull off. Also, fur and whiskers and paws and magnificent long tails and purrs are special things for which there is no substitute.<br />
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Max was truly bonded only to my humble self, and I always felt honored to be loved by him, lucky to have him in my life, graced by his graceful presence in my house. He was such a devoted cat I often thought of him as a Boddhisatva--in Buddhist tradition, an enlightened being who chooses to keep coming back to earth to accompany the rest of us until we get there ourselves. It even occurs to me--I'm walking way out into woo-woo territory here--that he may even have absorbed some of my cancer for me. He was small, and he couldn't sponge up all my illness, but he could take away enough, maybe, to improve my prospects, though it killed him in the process.<br />
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Max hadn't been himself for a while, but he didn't start to feel really punky until about Tuesday. But Wednesday I was out of the house all day teaching, and Thursday was chemotherapy, so he had to wait until today for a visit from a vet who makes house calls for euthanasia. "Oh, they do that?" Rick said. "I figured you could use Google to find a recipe for home euthanasia." I said, "Yeah, well--you can use Google to find a recipe for home abortion, too. Doesn't mean it's a good idea."<br />
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The vet was great--compassionate, unhurried, skilled. She gave Max a sedative so nothing hurt any more, and she had all the time in the world while I told Max everything I had to say about and to him, which turned out to be quite a lot. Then she followed up with a shot of euthanasia, and in about a minute, the body curled in my lap wasn't Max any more.<br />
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We buried him in the front garden, in a spot he spent so much time in, during the summer months, that he'd earned the nickname "Vegetable Proctor." (He was a cat of many nicknames: among the others, Thunderpurr, Maximum Cat, Maximus Cattimus, Maximiliano, and since my trip to Italy, Pontificus Maximus; Big Guy, Sweet Guy, Fur Man, Mr. Cutepaws, Buddy, "Max, you old dog"--always said with a wink and a pantomimed elbow-ribbing--Mr. Soft, Friend and Constant Companion, Mr. Plushy Forehead.) And we planted a daphne bush on his grave, a winter-blooming plant with intensely sweet-smelling blossoms he was fond of, and which will flower every year around the anniversary of his death.<br />
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A good death helped, a little, and a nice burial helped, a little. And still this pain is acute.<br />
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In Arabic there is an expression of great love, "Te'eburnee," which means literally "You bury me." In other words, I need to go first, because I couldn't stand being here without you. My reaction to Max's departure does not bode well for future losses (although Rick says his own death will be easier for me to take than that of the cat, because Max was never known to whistle tunelessly, misuse "lay" and "lie," or deliver long sports updates.)<br />
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Truth is, the idea of any of my family having to carry on without any of the rest of us is as excruciating as it is inevitable--so much so that I sometimes conjure a fantasy of a big asteroid taking us all out at once. It would leave only a big smoking crater and be very quick.<br />
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I shared this vision with my 21-year-old, but for some reason he wasn't as enthusiastic about the idea as I am.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1970840830705547278.post-45254856674722633902012-01-22T17:03:00.000-08:002012-01-22T17:03:59.161-08:00Get the Skinny<br />
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Cancer caused me to lose about 15
pounds I didn't really need to drop, through a phenomenon with the
terribly nineteenth-century name <i>wasting</i>. Wasting occurs when
tumors direct the body to eat its own muscle mass. It replaced my
fairly fit, youngishly-middle-aged physique with that of a little old
chicken-lady who lives on cigarettes and 3.2 beer and has never
exercised a day in her life.<br /><br />Luckily, chemotherapy and massive
quantities of naturopath-prescribed fish oil have stabilized me at
about size 4. I should enjoy it while it lasts: if you don't look too
closely, you might mistake me for a cover girl, fashionably shorn and
anorexic. To paraphrase the comedian Sarah Silverman, I don't care if
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Rick and I spent Monday night at Mazama Lodge, a rustic structure on Mt. Hood run by the mountaineering organization with which he is very involved. It snowed and snowed while we were there, all day and all night. (Before we left, Rick would have to dig the car out with a shovel). The lodge's floor-to-ceiling windows framed a view of what looked like Russia--you could practically hear the Tchaikovsky in the background. The dark limbs of fir trees sagged under the weight of all that snow. Twice we ventured out to play, and even in our snowshoes, we sank into the powder practically up to our knees.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1970840830705547278.post-75733354065535977772012-01-13T20:47:00.000-08:002012-01-13T20:48:21.328-08:00In Good CompanyYou know how when you learn a new word, suddenly you see it everywhere?<br />
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<br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1970840830705547278.post-35183000333292428902012-01-07T10:51:00.001-08:002012-01-07T10:51:32.489-08:00Happy Dance<br />
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My oncologist has told me that I am now
at the half-way point of treatment. I'm very glad for this
information, because the unknown can take any dark shape one can
imagine, and I had been envisioning a chemotherapy dragon devouring
much of 2012. This news also means that treatment is <i>working</i>,
which I really didn't know a month ago. Now it appears that my last
treatment will be in early March. At that point I should be
tumor-free, and can begin the process of recovering from chemo. So
I'm dancing a little jig. When I've finished choreographing the
steps, I'll teach it to you, and you can all dance it with me.</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1970840830705547278.post-4522060292142602182011-12-16T09:34:00.000-08:002011-12-16T09:34:19.283-08:00A Brief but Unpleasant Disappearance<div style="margin-bottom: 0in;">
In spite of a rough Round One of
chemotherapy, Rick and I decided to proceed with our plans to visit
Tucson for a week this month. We are trying to make decisions in
favor of living our lives instead of in favor of fear. That might sound
all spiritually evolved, but for a while there I was pretty sure we'd
made the wrong decision.
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On the morning of our departure – a
week after Round Two – I woke up puny and went downhill. We had a
14-hour day of flying and driving, and while I wasn't exactly in pain
– except for the mouth sores, which made my daily 2,869,421 pills
quite a chore – I was beyond exhausted. Like a wet kleenex. I
couldn't get up or move around or hydrate or anything. It was like
death, but with nausea. I couldn't even read, and you know I'm down
way, way low if I can't read. Sitting idle without reading is a thing
I never do in real life, because it is unbearable. But sit and lie
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Exhaustion may actually be a good sign,
because apparently tumor lysis (the metabolism of dead cancer
cells) is very, very hard work for the body (so says my son, the
student of cellular biology). If I was that wrung out, there may have
been a lot of dead cancer cells to metabolize. At the time, though, I
was just convinced they were killing me with their medical treatment.
I was gone. I had no physical presence, and I had no personality. On
paper that sounds kinda peaceful and Zen, but it really wasn't. It
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I knew I was perking up yesterday morning
when, while sitting idle in the car, I found myself reading the air-bag warning on the sun visor. You know
how it's printed in both English and French. The French word for
“injured” is <i>bless</i><span style="font-family: Times New Roman,serif;"><span style="font-size: small;"><i><span style="text-decoration: none;"><span style="font-weight: normal;">é</span></span></i></span></span><i>s</i>,
which looks like it should mean “blessed.” By contrast, the word
for “seat” is <i>si</i><i><span style="font-weight: normal;">è</span></i><i>ge</i>,
which looks like it should mean “siege.” Children may be gravely
blessed by air bags. A siege of children should always be
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Personality reappearing. I am still
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<br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1970840830705547278.post-38474733588779004982011-12-03T08:59:00.001-08:002011-12-03T09:03:12.597-08:00A Hair Out of Place<br />
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When Rick got home from work yesterday
I pointed out that Ducks linebacker Michael Clay used to be a deep
snapper, but is no longer. Rick had to wonder what had gotten into
me, reading the sports page like that. Well – I didn't read it on
purpose.
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Everybody knows you lose your hair when
you get chemotherapy, but the precise trajectory of hair loss isn't one we
usually dwell on. Hair doesn't fall out all at once like leaves from
a cartoon tree. You start to shed a few hairs at a time, like a cat.
Pretty soon there are individual strands everywhere, but still, you
can see that if you let it go on like this the process is going to
take months. So you comb your fingers through your hair, and you get
it to come out by the fingersful. It sounds horrifying – okay, it
is sort of horrifying – but I've made a little project of it,
combing over my scalp a few times a day with my fingers and taking
out as much at a time as I can. It doesn't hurt. But you wouldn't
want all that hair going down the sink. So I've been setting the
sports page in the basin to catch my sheddings. And, well, in the process I couldn't
help reading what was printed there, the way you can't help reading
street signs and cereal boxes. I'm sorry, Michael Clay. Maybe I
should start eliminating my chemo-stunned tresses into a copy of <i>War
and Peace</i>.</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1970840830705547278.post-62863365703903133972011-11-26T20:26:00.001-08:002011-11-26T20:58:52.720-08:00On Hubris and Blood CellsAt two in the morning Friday, Soviet secret agents broke into my bedroom, having mistaken me for Leon Trotsky, and sank an ice ax into the side of my face. Naturally this rudeness woke me right up. I staggered out to the kitchen and, while rummaging through the cupboards for Vicodin, I ran my hand over my cheek. Not finding an ice ax embedded there, I realized I must find an alternate explanation for my pain.<br />
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The pain turned out to be an infection, possibly self-induced through overzealous flossing. They told me when I got chemotherapy to floss very gently, if at all. But I thought that advice was directed at, you know, sick people. A lifelong flosser, I assumed my gums were tough enough to withstand ordinary dental hygiene. Chemo kills the cells in the mouth and makes it tender and vulnerable, so it is likely that, while flossing Thanksgiving dinner out from between my bicuspids, I nicked my gums a little and introduced bacteria into my bloodstream. Now, chemo also clobbers the white blood cells, so a little bacteria can become a big problem. This probably is what happened to me, due to my flossing hubris. Like the protagonist in a Greek tragedy, I fell because of my own pride. Come to think of it, isn't there an overzealously flossing king in a minor play of Aeschylus?<br />
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I spent most of Friday in a stupor of pain and pain meds, and then at some point realized I was probably running a fever. When you're running a fever you have to call the oncology nurse, and the oncology nurse got right to the point: You have to go to the E.R., she said. So off we went, and they gave me a blue face mask that accessorized very nicely with my blue pajamas, and they had me wait. Visits to the E.R. are very long and consist almost entirely of waiting, interrupted by needle pokes.<br />
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After about six hours of waiting and poking they ascertained that I had neutropenia. Neutropenia sounds like a kind of invasive species, a hairy swamp rat introduced in the nineteenth century for its fur which is now, in the absence of natural predators, wreaking havoc on Pacific Northwest wetlands. But that's not the case at all. Neutropenia is the condition of being very low on white blood cells. Turns out I was severely neutropenic, and so after numerous additional pokes I was admitted to the hospital and then, because my blood pressure was dramatically low, to the I.C.U., where I spent the day. I've been allowed to come back down to the regular hospital for my second night, which is where I am now, but I won't get to go home until those white blood cells increase their numbers by a factor of 10. Go, little blood cells, go.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1970840830705547278.post-60382016009672327082011-11-22T21:03:00.001-08:002011-11-22T21:09:43.299-08:00Hair Today, Gone Tomorrow<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Sometime soon I am going to lose all my hair, so I decided to make the transition between long hair and no hair easier with a cut. (Three shedding cats in our household are enough). Wonderful Sabrina at Primp on 43rd and SE Division in Portland did the honors. Here are my before and after mugs.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1970840830705547278.post-37947094395952689582011-11-20T09:55:00.001-08:002011-11-20T09:58:55.666-08:00Okay, "almost normal" didn't last very long. I had, I think, one day between the end of the nausea (phantom butter smell chasing me around everywhere) and the beginning of the cells in the lining of my mouth committing hari-kari -- a condition that results in all food tasting like baking soda. Then the mouth cells began to recover, but I started to develop neuropathy. Some of the many meds they're giving me are administered by the thousands of milligrams, but one particular drug, vincristine, is so exquisitely poisonous that the dose is just two milligrams, and it is responsible for damaging the nerves in the fingers and toes of 30-40% of chemo patients. I am displeased. Thus far my toes are fine, but the tips of my thumbs feel like I've dipped them in liquid nitrogen. My primary concern is the potential impact of neuropathy on my piano playing. Because, let's face it, my piano playing could use all the help it can get, and does <i>not</i> need another impediment.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1970840830705547278.post-77456897781986582122011-11-12T10:35:00.001-08:002011-11-12T10:47:14.476-08:00Had my first round of Chemo on Thursday. They gave me EIGHT drugs -- nine if you count the numbing spray they give you before the needle -- plus two required and four optional drugs to take home at the end of the day. This free-ranging, all-organic, whole-foods body didn't know what hit it. Actually I think all my clean livin' stood me in good stead, because these drugs can and often do have some gnarly side effects, and I hardly felt them. I was at the hospital almost nine hours. I slept through about a third of the treatment and spent the rest reading. The day after chemo I was a little queasy and a little catatonic, but today I feel almost normal.<br /><br />I do have to say I'm impressed by the toxicity of the stuff. When the nurse administered the chemo she wore an extra gown over her scrubs, along with her gloves and mask (and I got a gown over my jammies). When you pee you have to flush twice, because they don't want anybody else accidentally coming into contact with the toxins on their way out, even diluted with urine. If you dribble pee on your clothes you have to take them off and wash them <i>twice</i>. These are some bad-ass drugs. Of course the environmentalist in me notices right away that all this toxic pee is going straight into the river. As they used to say on the Sopranos, whaddyagonnado?<br />
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<img src="http://www.virginmedia.com/images/tv-crims-sopranos-431x300.jpg" />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1970840830705547278.post-79929528682191824032011-11-05T17:33:00.000-07:002011-11-06T12:32:49.561-08:00Jan's Health UpdatesHi folks,<br />
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I'm sure posting an announcement like that on Facebook is in poor taste. But the one-on-one conversations have become overwhelming (and anyway I never like to pass up the opportunity to write a smartass haiku).<br />
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Over the past several weeks I have undergone a series of pokings and proddings that confirmed a diagnosis of Class Three Follicular Lymphoma (lymphoma being a cancer of the system that's meant to protect you from cancer. Neat trick, huh?) This is actually a second-time-around for me; I went through lymphoma and treatment back in the late 90s and got a very long, productive, healthy remission. And now it's back.<br />
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The treatment has the unfortunate name of R-CHOP. It sounds like butchery, but it involves no knives; just poison. I will be spending one day every three weeks in the hospital starting Thursday, Nov. 10. After three rounds of chemo, they'll scan me again to see what's what. Eventually they'll get the wretched stuff shrunk back down to nearly nothing, and then I expect to get another nice long remission, if not an outright cure.<br />
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I expect to keep teaching on my usual schedule through the school year, but will not be jumping up and down to take on extra projects. It's likely that I won't feel very well, but actually I may feel better undergoing chemo, in spite of its toxicity, than I do now. The cancer itself has been making me pretty puny for a couple months. If I lose my hair, I plan to start wearing outrageous headdresses piled with fruit.<br />
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People often ask what they can do for me, but it's hard to think of anything. Rick and I really don't need meals, and anyway I have all sorts of tedious food restrictions that make it almost impossible for someone else to feed me. If you have movies (DVDs or videos) that you'd care to lend me, I'd like that; I think I'm going to be spending a lot of hours on the couch this winter. You can post get-well messages here or email me or send a card if you like. I'd rather not talk on the phone. I've never liked talking on the phone, and I'm even more phone-averse now than ever.<br />
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I'm not really planning to blog about cancer -- ugh! I'm already so sick of it as a topic! -- but I will post updates here periodically. Feel free to pass the info on to other friends and acquaintances as you deem appropriate.<br />
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cheers,<br />
Jan<br />
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